I came across this article on MSN about how to be irresistible to men. I was reading it and thinking about how true it is as related to certain people that I know. OK, not only do you have to be impeccably dressed from A Girly Girl Boutique but there are some very simple rules of engagement to adhere to!

It is pretty simple and I will sum it up for all you Girly Girls out there.  Basically, men need to feel they are respected!  They may easily be threatened by your incredible intelligence.  Remember, they want to feel superior.  The smart Girly Girl knows how to stroke a man’s ego, not too much but just enough.  It is a fine art girls, but it is not rocket science.  Be concious of your interactions, not hap-hazard.  Put as much energy into landing the RIGHT guy (or keeping him) as you would any other endeavor!  The RIGHT guy is priceless, he treats you like a fine gem and appreciates you.  If that is not the case, THEN HE IS NOT THE RIGHT GUY!!.  Did you hear me?!

So what is the irresistible Girly Girl to do (aside from a little retail therapy!)?  Be attentive, and don’t talk about yourself too much.  Engage in INTERESTING conversation and know some current events.  It is amazing what you can pick up if the TV is blaring a news channel while you are putting makeup on or running the straightener through those lucious strands!

Next, ask for help!  There is a lot to be said for the damsel in distress.  And remember, suttle things, don’t get carried away so that you appear helpless for heaven’s sake!  That brings us to the next point–negativism!  Get rid of it!  Expel any negative word from your vocabulary and do it now.  As a matter of fact, make a concious effort to learn new positive words every day so that it becomes a habit.  That is good advice for any one, looking for Mr RIGHT or not!!

Lastly, learn about men and master the game.  As with any great skill, it takes patience and practice.  You must seem desirable and this is easy to achieve if your tactics include confident, playful phrases and teasing antics.  Again, just enough, don’t overdo it!  Don’t take yourself too seriously and learn how to rein yourself in!  Now you know what to do so what are you waiting for?  Go get him, tigress!!