My thought is instead of trying to find herself in men, she should try dressing nice.  Pamela Anderson could definitely use a new wardrobe and we certainly have the greatest clothes here at A Girly Girl Boutique in  Saginaw, Michigan.  I could help her create a new identity as a self assured Girly Girl who is confident and doesn’t need any man.  She would look smashing in a BB Dakota Tunic dress with it’s eye catching design and the ability to camouflage her assets.  She would look incredibly lady like without the need to show so much skin!  I can see it now; her confidence rising and (quality) men flocking after her.  Self confidence speaks for itself.  Men like chasing confident women.  It is a challenge for them and boosts their egos!!